8 Ways of Knowing When to Shutup or Speakup to Your Boss
Tuesday, May 25th, 2010
With job security not so secure these days, bucking authority in your job could lead to job layoff. Employees don’t want to be fired. so their suppression and even fear of their boss leads to feeling undervalued and ultimately job dissatisfaction. Even entrepreneurs need to know the when and how of conversations in critical business relationships. So how do you know when you can speak up or when it’s best to be quiet?
If you’re a manager, director or supervisor, chances are you’ll have more opportunity for input than someone further down the chain. But not always. Some bosses have a great need to control and if you’re an excellent employee doing well they may feel inadequate next to you, even try to undermine your efforts, as well as not listening to your input. If you’re confident in your self, your job role and the tasks at hand, then consider the following:
1. Can you risk losing your job? You should always have a minimum of three months salary saved in your bank account that’s enough to cover all expenses at any time. This is security in many senses, including a useful backup should you decide to change jobs. If you don’t have those finances, consider what other recourse you could rely on, should you be fired. This is a risk that you’ll be taking, but take it with advance preparation.
2. How important is your boss’s influence and interactions with you regarding your job performance and job satisfaction? While no one should work in negative surroundings, if you have little interaction with your boss and recognize it’s their general style of communication, you may decide to leave matters lie and not contest their behavior. A simple straight and directly spoken comment such as, ”John, I hear you and I’ll take care of it,” may get the point across. However, if you can pleasantly smile it off, and go about your business, then this is obviously a first and easier approach.
3. Is this a particularly bad time for your boss personally or professionally? We all have periods of our life that are better or worse. It’s possible he or she is dealing with a personal crisis you’re unaware of. See what you can find out without talking with them directly and consider if you can wade through a short-period with them that may be difficult, yet you know the high tides will soon recede and your boss will return to his/her professional demeanor.
If you’re showering and spot a spider, do you ignore it, quickly flush it down the drain, or stop and get out of the shower to carry it to safety?
Most successful entrepreneurs and women in management can’t afford to waste time during their work hours. But they often don’t know what causes them to lose time in their day. As both an Entrepreneur and one who manages my business, plus the service consultants and vendors who work for me, I know what you’re up against. Here are some tips I’ve learned:










