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Five Management Styles of Women Who Try too Hard

Thursday, May 28th, 2009

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girl sitting on a briefcase smilingWhether you’re a manager in an organization or need to more effectively manage your own business as an entrepreneur, these styles of management can get in the way if you’re not aware you’re doing them. Here’s what I’ve discovered with my clients that doesn’t work and how to fix them.

1.  Go along, get along

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. Are you still trying too hard to be accepted and gain recognition for the work you do?  You may find that rather than trust your instincts and ideas you’re trying to fit in and prove your value.  In Lois P. Frankel’s book, Women Who Don’t Get the Corner Office A Good Man Is Hard to Find film Someone Like You… dvd Dark Matter rip Wishmaster divx The Karate Dog psp , you may still be acting more like a “girl” and not like a “woman.”  It’s time to leave your comfort cloak behind, step up and try on being more of the woman you are.

2.  Overcompensating.  If you feel you have a tendency to be agreeable too quickly to other people’s ideas or plans, or you tend to change your already crammed schedule to accommodate someone else who neglected to give you advance notice,  you’re ignoring your own value. Maybe you feel you’ve underserved someone or been less than cooperative and now you’re overcompensating.  Listen to your heart and not just your head.  Give yourself time before adding more to your plate by stepping away for a minute to think it through before replying.

3.  Not doing your homework.  Do your homework on a project or idea before launching yourself into it.  If you’re too busy for the upfront preparation needed, get others on your team to help you do it so you don’t rush ideas through and end up somewhere you don’t want to be, or even worse, backpaddling.  You may quickly decide you’ll handle something without all the facts in front of you, and then wonder later why you’re having to put in overtime on the project.

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Interplay of Owned vs. Disowned Self

Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

Tabletop Lake near Branson, MO 5-09My week-long master coach conference in Missouri is having powerful leader facilitated conversations.  One such session was led by Zen Master Genpo Merzel, who quieted our busy coach minds, turning us to look inward at any areas where we held on to dissatisfaction or incompletedness with ourselves, calling this the disowned (vs. owned) parts of our self.

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As coaching is mired in powerful questions, one question that came up in conjunction with this was, ”Do you have any resistance to have your accomplishments visible in the world?”  Another was, “Do you sometimes feel like a fake or fraud or stupid in your work and, if so, do you acknowledge that feeling or ignore it?”

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There were many more powerful questions that caused me to look at the interplay between my internal and external voices and how they talk with each other.  Even for a master life coach, these inner/outer parts of oneself can sometime stay hidden in order to continue habitual ways of responding.  Becoming aware of this allows me to be more accessible to myself and others.

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