I was recently bitten by a dog.  It’s not a horrible bite, but it did mean an evening in the ER, a tetanus shot and lost time on an evening I’d planned to spend differently with my husband.  Fortunately it was a neighbor’s dog who is ordinarily very tame and who has all its shots.  It was an unusual circumstance and the dog is being trained not to lunge, even when surprised.   My arm is healing and I’ve moved on.

Today, my new women’s singing group had three members leave the group for different reasons.  With only 11 members and a connection made with each of these ladies, it’s hard seeing them go, but unavoidable given their personal and work circumstances.  While disappointed, I will reach out more to share this opportunity with other women who will be available to come and sing in the group.

Life has a way of going in different directions, often unexpectedly.  Trying to keep everything running in tight order and avoiding any diversions or changes will only lead to disappointment and stress.  Flexbility is a challenge to cultivate, yet it’s the key tool to contentment and your ability to readjust during these times.

Are you able to be flexible when it’s needed?  Do you expect others to be the same, or are you able to assist them  by staying calm and pointing out alternative solutions?

Tags: alternative solutions, flexibility and unattachment, new beginnings, open doors

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