Weighing Choice Significance for Resolution
If you find a spider in your home, do you stop what you’re doing and go get a jar to capture it and take it outside? My husband does. I think that’s kind of him. But I confess to my reading public that I often squash spiders or quickly wash then down a drain if they’re found in my home. As insignificant as this example may be, some folks spend a great deal of time comparing their choices, even small ones, with those that others make. In this way they often fret about whether they’re doing the “right” thing, or once their choice is made, they second-guess it.
While there are important choices that require consideration, weighing the circumstances, considering the time, energy, financial impacts, those parties involved, long-range effects, etc., there are many decisions that don’t require significant weighing. If you are a arachnologist (spider scientist), then the example of what to do with an unexpected spider would have more importance to you. But if that’s not your profession, you typically would quickly decide and live comfortably with your choice.
How do you determine what’s worth spending your time deciding on? Notice what you consistently feel is important to you – what problems you are drawn to give attention to and resolve. Additionally, not everything has to be dealt with by you, so that too is a choice you can make, like knowing which fights you’ll fight. First determine the importance and therefore the time and energy you’ll allow to a “problem” and then whether you or someone else should address it. If you are delegating it, then you have determined a certain level of importance to the matter versus ignoring it, but that other matters require your attention more.
Are there minor projects, tasks, or details you’re caught up in that you need to let go of or delegate and how can you do this most effectively?
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